My first Tae Kwon Do instructor gave our class a piece of advice that services equally well for martial arts, objection handling, and many other endeavors.

“If you don’t want to be hit, then don’t be in the place where the attack is”

From the Tae Kwon Do perspective, this advice is almost as good as rule number 1 (don’t block with your face), but in objection handling, the application can be even more subtle and more effective.

There are basically three ways that you can avoid being where the attack is, and all three make good metaphors for objection handling.  I will explore each of the three in different blog posts, but to set expectations, the three ways are as follows:

  • Block
  • Dodge
  • Prevent the attack

In this post, we will explore the block.

In Tae Kwon Do, blocking is important, but it is the most direct, unsubtle and sometimes painful way to prevent an attack.  Sure – when it needs to be done it should be done forcefully and effectively, but if there is a choice, it is not always the best way.  It can hurt, and should be thought of as a last resort.  Simply by the names, you should see how dodging and preventing are less potentially painful than blocking, but they also require more skill.  Sometimes though, you do have to block, so how does that work for objections?

Blocking objections means that they are said and you need to react to them directly to prevent them from causing damage to your sales effort.  Once they are inserted into the conversation, something has to be done with them, and as the martial arts technique implies, blocking means fighting force with force, and taking on the objections directly.  Much ink has been spilled about handling objections, including some of my own blog posts on objections which you can find here.  “Handling” objections is analogous to blocking.

Best practices for objection handling imply doing such things as repeating the objection back to clarify it; preparing responses in advance for common objections; and taking a helpful, consultative approach to answering the objection.  These are all very wise things to do, but again, not as skillful as dodging or preventing.

We will explore those in later blog posts.


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